moms know best

I don't how or why, but my mom talked me through work life. Now I understand why she doesn't me to get a job muna, especially to be involved in real estate. I didn't tell her anything naman...siguro nga iba talaga ang feeling ng isang ina.

She's worried about the boys, guys, men, the issues, the stuff I could go through in this field...pero sympre, she can't protect me from the real world forever, di ba? Even before kinausap n'ya ko, I can say I've been through enough na girls my age don't usually experience yet.

Well, as most people tell my mom, she's somehow lucky that I have a conscience that I listen to most times, and I've sticked to the values I learned from my mom, people at school, and friends. Sana nga, my will would be strong enough to stick to them. Sana nga I was molded strong enough not to give in to what I was taught not to do, things that aren't right.

After that brief conversation, I felt relief. It's as if I am sure and glad that I was able to do the right thing. Lalo na kung against all odds within myself ang drama...Sana hindi temporary feeling ito, sana when I see either of them, lalo na both of them, I'd still feel the same feeling I have right now.

Pero Let's pray for all the married men all over our planet that they may realize the importance of the vows they made when they got married, and be able to sort right from wrong. Sana matuto sila gumamit ng utak, hindi panay yung nasa baba lang. May they learn how to resist temptation, and may they value fidelity, loyalty to their respective families. :) And sana marealize nila yung kmga buhay na pwede nilang sirain, hindi yung ego at ibaba lang nila iniisip nila, kiber na yung babaeng masisira ang buhay, pati buhay ng pamilya nila.

Let's also pray for those women na willing makisabit...kase they are blinded by their weaknesses. May we, all women, have enough strength and will to go against such things. Na sana isipin natin yung anak or mga anak at asawa na pwede nating masagasaan. Babae rin tayo, if we were in that position, how would we feel, di ba? Promise, if one of you [readers out there] is somehow boggled in such situation, think about it. Akala lang naten masaya na sundin lang ang gusto, pero in the end, kung mali yan, masasaktan ka rin in the long run. Unlike if we stick to what is right, sa umpisa, masakit talaga...pero mas masaya ka naman in the end. :)

Good luck to each and everyone of us. To those who had gone through such, in the situation right now, and to those who are about to be faced with this kind of dilemma. God bless our souls :)

accidentally in love

Know this song? Here's the lyrics.


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As per Meredith Grey, "We can't help who we fall in love with." We can't dictate what and how we should feel, but the least we could do is control our actions...even if it hurts big time. To contradict what our hearts say. Say no even if you really meant yes...pushing the person away when all you really wanna do is pull that person near to you.

And you know what's even harder? It's when that person has been somehow persistent, but you just have to push the person away, because it's the right thing to do. When they said doing the right thing would be rewarding at the end (even if it's just the "rewarding feeling" no?), sana nga it's worth all the pain. I hope it would, it is...So help us, God. :)